Life Strategy for Women in Transition

I’ve created a Method called The Coherence Wave that restores nervous system, emotions, mindset and vision.

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I’m Paula.

I grew up in Colombia. Since I was 19 years old, I have moved between countries, changed careers, become a mother, had a millionaire life overnight, travelled with a baby, then became a single mother, built businesses, and started over from scratch - and this was the best thing that could ever happen.

I know what it feels like to have a life that looks good on paper and still feel disconnected inside it. There were many times when I was successful, busy and doing everything I thought I was supposed to do, while my body was quietly asking for something else. I experienced burnout, heartbreak, disappointment, bankruptcy, and especially single motherhood in a foreign country.

That was the beginning of my real work.

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I started looking at my health differently. I learned about the gut, nourishment, the nervous system, emotions and relationships. But more than anything, I learned to listen.

I realised that no one was coming to live my life for me. If I wanted to feel well, have meaningful relationships, be present for my children and create work I cared about, I had to take responsibility for my life.

One choice at a time, I began to trust myself again.

I healed my gut. I changed my career. I built my own business. I learned what a safe and loving relationship could feel like. And I discovered that when we come back into connection with ourselves, the way we experience life begins to change.

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Over the years, women began coming to me with the same questions I had once asked myself.

They were capable, caring and doing everything they were supposed to do. But they were tired. They understood their patterns, yet still repeated them. Their lives looked successful from the outside, but they had lost touch with what made them feel alive.

They did not need more information. They needed to hear themselves again.

That became The Coherence Wave, the embodied method I developed through years of study, practice and lived experience.

We start with the body, create the capacity to listen, and bring that deeper knowing into your choices, relationships, work and life.

I do not believe you need to become someone new.

I believe there is a part of you that already knows. My work is to help you hear her again, and build a life that gives her somewhere to live.

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200+ couples supported through Birth Preparation
100+ mothers through Mother’s Circles
200+ cacao ceremonies and somatic sessions worldwide
Featured TEDx speaker, “What a Woman Must Unlearn”

My work helps women understand their emotional patterns, feel safer in their bodies, and trust themselves enough to make different choices.

They learn to communicate clearly, set boundaries, and respond with presence instead of reactivity, while building stronger foundations for gut health, emotional wellbeing, relationships and the life they want to create.

HOW WE CAN WORK TOGETHER

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Start here: The Clarity Code
A relational masterclass to define your edges with intention.
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Resonance: 12-Week Life Strategy Journey
program to build strength, define your edges, your core identity and learn how to cultivate authentic relationships as the foundation of a thriving life.
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Hypnobirthing Masterclass for Couples
Tools and practices for calm and empowered birthing.
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Workshops & Retreats
Live experiences to expand and embody transformation.
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My Experience & Credentials

My work brings together over 15 years of experience in marketing and strategy with more than 10 years of study, research and hands on work with women.

15+ years
International marketing, brand strategy and business consulting

10+ years
Research, study and practical work exploring women’s health, relationships, embodiment and personal transformation

Creator
The Coherent Wave Methodology

Certified Somatic Coach
Academia de Coaching Somático with Cecilia Jalfin, 2026

Certified Holistic Health Coach & Gut Health Specialist
Whole Person Healing and Hormonal Balance, 2020

Certified Hypnobirthing Educator
Mongan Method, 2021

Ayurveda & Health Education
Chopra Health Education and IIN, 2022

Breathwork Facilitator
Yogalap, 50hr YPA, 2022

Somatic Dance Facilitator
2021

Herbalism & Plant Medicine
Courses and continued study since 2019

Reiki Attunement I & II 2025 & 2026

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My Invitation to You

This is a space where you are held, witnessed and guided, not to become someone new, but to come back to yourself.

If you are ready to feel more connected to your body, clearer about what you want, and more confident in the life you are creating, I’d love to support you.

If you’re looking for...

To feel like yourself again
You have done a lot, but somewhere along the way you lost touch with what makes you feel alive. You want to reconnect with your body, your pleasure, your needs and the woman underneath all the roles you carry.

To stop living on autopilot
You are tired of pushing through, doing what is expected and repeating the same patterns. You want to understand what is really happening and make choices that feel like your own.

To trust yourself again
You want to hear your intuition, understand your emotions and feel steady enough to make decisions without constantly second guessing yourself.

To create healthier relationships
You want to communicate more honestly, set boundaries, feel closer to the people you love and stop carrying resentment that slowly creates distance.

To build a life that feels good to live
You want your health, work, relationships, family and choices to reflect what actually matters to you. Not a perfect life, but a life that feels alive, meaningful and yours.

When you learn to listen to yourself again, everything starts to change. You make clearer choices, build stronger relationships, and create a life that feels alive, meaningful and yours.